Another day, another post and another year. Where did the time fly to? You are probably shaking your head in wonder. Wondering where the time has disappeared to. And how we have managed to survive the chaos (in my world anyway) that defined 2021?

I am not sure but for 365 days of 2021, we have lived and experienced an array of emotions, events and interactions. Some of these experiences may have brought us happiness while others have brought tears of sadness. If you are like me and millions of humans on this earth, we are no different in our emotions. In fact, the downs and and the in between experiences is what makes up the ingredients of what we call life.

And yes we struggled and we cried but mostly importantly we survived. Maybe not as whole as we would have liked but one thing is for sure, we are giving it our best shot.

Before we say goodbye to 2021, ask yourself the following questions. These open ended question are designed to help you think deeply and reflect on the moments and experiences that have helped shape who you are today.  

So Grab a pen, paper, your cup of coffee and find a moment or space where you could think and write.

Question 1: What were some things you were most proud of? 

Did you show up to work everyday when people called in sick? Did you complete a course? Got a new job or became a parent?

Question 2: What were some of the more difficult moments and how did you overcome it? 

Did you meet with some disappointments? Here is how I dealt with it in holding the space together.

Question 3: What were some things you learned about yourself this year?

Did you become wiser or more patient? 

Question 4: Identify five things you are grateful for today?

 Is it your family, your job or your mental and physical health?

Question 5: If you could unwind a time, event or moment, what would you do it differently?

Events cannot be unwind but lessons can be learned.

Question 6: Where do you see yourself this time next year? 

What do you look forward to? And what is your vision for 2022?

Remember to be open and honest with yourself. Celebrate the wins, appreciate the struggles and recognize that you are trying your best.

And lastly, I wish you a Happy New Year and see you soon in 2022!